
This is a mistake I’ve seen countless times over the years, whether in shoe stores, at trunk shows, or through emails from frustrated customers: trying on dress shoes with the wrong socks. Most commonly, that means thicker athletic socks.
If you try on dress shoes wearing thick athletic socks, you’re almost guaranteed to walk away with the wrong size. And the irony is that the shoes often feel “perfect” in the store — only to feel too big once you get home and put on proper dress socks. Yet time and again, this happens. Let’s talk about it and break down why this happens.

Athletic Socks vs Dress Socks: Thickness Matters
Athletic socks are designed for impact, cushioning, and movement. They’re meant to work in combination with athletic shoes, which already have layers of foam, padding, and shock absorption.
In contrast, classic dress socks are significantly thinner — often two, three, or even four times thinner than athletic socks.
That thickness difference alone can dramatically change:
- How snug the shoe feels
- How much volume your foot takes up
- Where your foot sits inside the shoe
- And ultimately your shoe size, upwards of ½ to a full size different
When you size a dress shoe while wearing athletic socks, you’re effectively sizing the shoe for a foot that’s artificially bulked up.

The Result: Shoes That Feel Too Big Later
This is the scenario I hear all the time:
Someone buys a pair of dress shoes while wearing athletic socks. They get home, put on proper dress socks…and suddenly the shoes feel loose, sloppy, or oversized.
At that point, the shoe isn’t defective — it was just sized incorrectly from the start. Whenever I’m helping someone try on shoes or giving size advice over email, I always ask one simple question: “Is that the sock you plan on wearing with these shoes?”
If the answer is no, then you shouldn’t be trying the shoes on with them.
🎥 Quick Video: The Fit Mistake Everyone Makes
Below is a short video where I explain this exact issue in real time while shoe shopping.
“Athletic socks are almost meant to give you a ball of cushion around your foot — dress shoes are meant to fit snug and hugging. When you mix the two, you get the wrong size. Simple as that.”
Dress shoes aren’t designed for extreme movement or heavy padding. They’re meant to fit securely and comfortably for long daily wear, not like running shoes.
What You Should Do Instead
If you want to get the correct fit when trying on dress shoes, follow these simple rules:
- Wear the socks you’ll actually use with the shoes
- If you plan to wear thin dress socks, bring them with you
- If you go sockless, ask for nylon try-on socks or go barefoot
- If you insist on wearing thick socks with dress shoes, size accordingly — just don’t change later
As a rule, of them it is better to try dress shoes on barefoot than with thick athletic socks. You will get a better sense of your ‘real’ size.
The Golden Rule
If dress shoes feel right when worn with athletic socks, they will almost always feel too big with proper dress socks.
Avoid the mistake at the fitting stage, and you’ll save yourself frustration, returns, and disappointment later.
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—Justin FitzPatrick, The Shoe Snob
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Solid advice as usual Justin. I guess some people just do not think about the little details.
Thanks Arthur!
Where is the common sense? Lol
sadly it left the same time ‘smart phones’ became prevalent in society
I just got my first pair of carminas and my feet are falling out, I’ll just end up wearing thicker socks with them, but I was in a bit of a shock. the next pairs I’ll have to size down.
yup, it happens to the best of us
Well now I am a sock snob too.
Hahaha